Posted by annierose on July 24, 2006, at 22:13:19
In reply to bizarre meeting(s) [and llrrrpp], posted by ElaineM on July 24, 2006, at 21:02:22
Elaine -
This isn't therapy. This is destructive. You shouldn't be worried about pleasing him, wondering if you said the right thing. This is so harmful to you. I wish you could see that.
You wrote:
>>>I'm afraid my personality will come out when I see him <<<Therapy is supposed to be a safe place for you. Yes it is scary for most of us, but we should be comfortable with our therapist enough for them to see most parts of us.
I'm sorry you are so sad, lonely, confused and scared. As much as you think he loves you, he loves himself more. He needs help. I just wish you could see that.
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