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Poor Greg ;) (np)

Posted by Kingfish on August 12, 2001, at 15:19:29

In reply to Re: spouses and alcohol » Willow, posted by Marie1 on August 11, 2001, at 19:32:15

> Willow,
> Yeah, I think you're right. I wonder if Greg would agree. Greg?? I also agree about the physical attributes; to me it's always been more the person's character that creates the sense of sexual attraction. I guess (some) men are different that way. Once again, there's proof of the superiority of the feminine sex! :-)
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> > > Okay, here's a sticky question - are you still sexually attracted to your wife? I ask because I know that I'm not really attracted to my husband anymore, although physically he hasn't changed all that much in the last 20 yrs. I guess it's more about how I feel about him as a person. If that desire is gone, and the romance is gone, is it possible to get it back? To me, that's everything.
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> > I think you hit the nail on the head! (Is that a pun?) I don't know if it is the same for men, but I do believe a woman needs a connection with her mate. Without the emotional connection we start staring at the ceiling.
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> > Physical attributes don't have much to do with sexual attraction for myself. (Well maybe it isn't sexual, more a warm cuddly feeling.) Anybody that is smiling and having fun I like. And then let the poor soul give me any praise, (thanks to effexor) I'll lap it up like a little puppy, friend for life.
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> > So I guess if we're not connecting emotionally with our spouses, they start to look less desirable.
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