Posted by Willow on August 13, 2001, at 13:52:11
In reply to Re: Poor Greg ;) (np), posted by Greg A. on August 13, 2001, at 13:19:30
*I sure wish I had a clue as to what makes me tick though.
I think what makes us click is the key. For myself being able to maintain some form of independence on my own is key, but feeling the way I do right now I'm limited by how much I can do. Finding another partner would not improve this.
Having said that we have grown in different directions, though my spouse is quite content with the status quo, only change he would like is for myself to be earning a paycheque or for us to have more finances. For myself I would like a spouse who takes more interest in my activities and thoughts. Someone to share with.
I know that is a contradiction of what I said earlier, but it would be nice to find the right balance that would leave both of us happy and content.
I've become a roommate who preforms sexual favours. This is not how I imagined marriage, but perhaps I want too much. Some friends who have been married about the same length say their spouses aren't even interested in the physcial aspects of the relationship anymore.
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