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Re: day 5 (v. long) wishingstar

Posted by toojane on November 5, 2006, at 16:04:59

In reply to Re: day 5 (v. long) toojane, posted by wishingstar on November 5, 2006, at 10:44:22

>But I guess I just want someone (other than you all here) to let me talk about HER for a little while. One session. How badly SHE hurt me. What she did was wrong, regardless of my past hurts.


I think that is a perfectly valid want. It is necessary to clearly see and label and mourn the hurts in the now as well as in the then. Present hurts may be amplified because of the past but they are not nullifed because of it. Completely dismissing your present pain as irrelevant because the roots of it may have started in the past is in itself a repetition of abandonment and belittlement.


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