Posted by Dinah on April 27, 2005, at 18:07:54
In reply to Re: Sex again. Sigh. (**somewhat graphic**) » Dinah, posted by Tamar on April 27, 2005, at 12:52:29
I dug up the "Sexual Anorexia" book today and read a bit. I am extremely unconvinced that it has anything at all to do with my own problems, as I don't come anywhere near meeting most of the criteria. It's just that I really really meet those criteria I do meet. :)
I think I'll talk to my therapist about it, and about my fears that I would resent him.
He's been doing some sex therapy training lately and yesterday I found myself saying to him that I'd rather it be him than some stranger if I ever went into therapy for sexual difficulties. Then I thought to myself "No, that's probably not true" but didn't bother to tell him. I probably should.
Baby steps. :)