Posted by annierose on April 26, 2005, at 19:12:37
In reply to Re: Sex again. Sigh. (**somewhat graphic**) » Dinah, posted by Tamar on April 25, 2005, at 13:18:11
Thank you Tamar -
That was so brave of you. Thank you for sharing. I understand all of your steps, they make perfect sense. Did you figure this out on your own? or did you work on them with your T?
I talked about sex today in therapy. She made an interesting obversation. In general, I flinch when I am touched. And she said, when you come to therapy, it is like being touched. And for me, it is. I can't explain it.
But I don't know how to work on this in my marriage. Your post gives me something to think about, and a starting point.