Posted by WorryGirl on May 15, 2003, at 11:38:21
In reply to Re: Toxic Friendships (loooonnnnnggg) » WorryGirl, posted by leeran on May 15, 2003, at 11:23:11
> "What they really think about her I don't know and am not going to ask. I don't feel comfortable talking about other people/friends when they're not around."
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> Oh no, I didn't suggest that! In fact, I think I mentioned somewhere else that it would have to be a case of someone else bringing it up . . . and even then, I would just have an "Oh really?" type of attitude. In other words, I would file the information in my brain and know that I wasn't the "only one" who had experienced this kind of treatment from this one woman.
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Lee,
I did read that part of your post, so I knew you wouldn't suggest that. I was just kind of phrasing that on my own, saying that I don't know for sure what the neighbors think of her, and in fact, would do as you say, and have an "Oh, really?" attitude if her name was brought up about anything. I just wanted you to know that I don't go around talking about others if they're not there. It's happened to me so many times and I know how I feel, so I wouldn't do it to anyone else.Thanks
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