Posted by pinkeye on June 4, 2005, at 13:45:09
In reply to Re: Trying to make peace and let go, posted by daisym on June 4, 2005, at 0:53:30
I am beginning to wonder why my ex T never wrote like you guys write?? He knew how bad I felt... but he didn't help me with it.
I think he didn't know how to help. It would have really helped me if he understood more about transference and how to help these feelings. He always kept silent most of the times, and I think that is what he was taught. I really wish they would teach all these things in India. I think he didn't understand the seriousness of my feelings and problems. And he must have figured that terminating would help resolve the issue.
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