Posted by pinkeye on June 3, 2005, at 18:07:37
In reply to Re: Trying to make peace and let go, posted by Susan47 on June 3, 2005, at 17:44:16
Thanks Susan.
But I would never go to a male T again. I do have a very good female T now, and she has helped me understand lots of issues about my transference. That is all I need. I really don't have any interest in going to a new male T and try to develop affection for him and work through it. I don't really want to develop any affection towards any guy again - other than my husband. I don't have interest in forming a close relationship with anybody else.
Thanks for the comment about being beautiful. I think all of us are beautiful in our own ways. And many times it is not really what matters - how beautiful or intelligent or how good you are. That is only 50 %. The rest 50 % is something else.. I haven't discovered it still. Maybe it is about understanding that none of it really matters at the end of the day. Everyone goes thorugh the same thing irrespective of any difference. In my religion they say it really doesn't matter all these things. Ultimately what matters is really how you connect with God. I also have started believing in it nowadays. Everything else can be destroyed in a second. I might be a good person now, but if I am put under extreme pressure for coupel of years, then I might end up being not so good and nice. So these are all really transitory.
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