Posted by pinkeye on June 5, 2005, at 12:22:00
In reply to Re: Trying to make peace and let go, posted by Susan47 on June 4, 2005, at 18:04:18
I am glad you came to see yourself as a beautiful person Susan. I think it is high time you discovered it.
True.. physical beauty is not everything. Especially after 30 years, it tends to matter less and less to people, and both men and women start looking for something more solid inside.I saw a woman about 4 days back (about 45 years old), and I didn't even speak to her - just saw her talkign to someone, and I was stunned at her personality. I saw her only for a few minutes - but was stunned by her mannerisms. She was not outwardly beautiful at all.. she was very very poor looking according to the modern standards. But I was amazed at her. I am sure any man who met her would see that in her (if the guy is worthy at all). That is more important as you grow older. I think for you, you said you are already 47 - 48 right, hereafter you should aim for that kind of inner beauty rather than blaming your external apperances and thinking you are not beautiful.
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