Posted by karen_kay on November 19, 2003, at 20:12:59
In reply to Re: Multi diagnosed wife. Help dont want to divorce., posted by LOVEUMIKO on November 19, 2003, at 19:37:39
>I did (and still do to a point) to some point strike out at my loved ones, but not this severe. I mostly got into trouble with money and promiscuity. If you can't see her right now, maybe it couldn't hurt to check into some counseling for yourself. I really don't know what to tell you to do legally. I do know that when manic, a person really loses control. I think that right now, you should try to take care of yourself, especially since you can't (am I right??) contact her. Wait until the smoke clears and then try to salvage what is left of your relationship. Just try to realize that she is hurting right now too. I'm sorry about your situation. Please continue posting. I'll continue to answer. Karen
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> Hi Karen,
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> Yes she is (was) on medications. I can't even alk to her without being arrested right now. I have no idea how she is doing. I'm afraid she will crash and realize the irriversable damage this has caused. I'm a Police Officer-This has basically sealed the fate of never transfering to any other dept. It was tough enough explaining the first time. This second time I do not see being tolorated by a potential employer...including my current employer.
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> She went to the news papers and made her allegations public. It was a big mess to fix the first time.
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> I can't see how I can possibly keep going on with her reactions being the way they are. If they were of a different nature I can see staying with her "in sickness and in health"
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> She is very smart which makes matters worse! SHe presents well and uses the legal system to attack me.
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> Your right. I do love her very much. I'm in tears as i write. I don't understand why she attacks me.
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> Did you ever lash out at the ones that loved and supported you the most?
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