Posted by danf on July 25, 2000, at 9:41:09
In reply to When it is deliberate » dj, posted by Cass on July 25, 2000, at 1:26:25
> My mother really did mean to fuck us up.
cass,speaking from a past where the dark drug me down & devours me.
you can not continue to harbor such negative thoughts !
it does not matter what she /they did. it was them & not you.
You need to find a way to deal with & accept them as they are /were.... good or bad. harboring hate only burns you.
you can not deal with the depression & anxiety until you forgive.
I pray that you will learn how to do this....
it is a key to recovery....
deep seated unresolved anger only burns US & consumes OUR lives. It does nothing to right the old wrongs.
Peace leads to our happiness.
I hope you find yours.
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