Posted by kara lynne on July 2, 2003, at 11:52:23
In reply to Re: Kara how are you fending?, posted by giget on July 2, 2003, at 6:55:34
Hi giget,
You're right about that hanging on to the relationship through email, no question. We acually ended up *civil* yesterday --(it was hard, but I made myself). There are still a couple of things we have to work out about my getting my stuff back. I'm going over there today (with a kind friend who offered to go with me). That was how the emails started--mine was very terse and to the point asking when he might be away so I could come get my stuff, because I thought it would be easier when he wasn't there. He didn't like that, and we were off and running.But his last email was full of pleases and kindlys--we'll see how long that lasts. We both agreed we just need some time right now, before any rigorous analyzation. The heartbreak is that of course you're right; I don't think he'll change, or that intense psychotherapy will save us, and it's just another false hope to stay attached to.
What kind of job are you looking for?
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