Posted by Dinah on April 6, 2005, at 19:42:18
In reply to Dinah, posted by Spriggy on April 5, 2005, at 11:28:17
That's what my therapist suggested, and it seems to be working, at least short term. He also suggested that I keep my lips unavailable. :)
I of course want to do everything I should as a good wife, and to help my husband feel loved and connected with me. I did avoidance most of our courtship, and explicitly promised I wouldn't once we were married. I stick pretty well to that promise. I don't think he has much of a clue, other than pain which I can't hide. He even comments on my eagerness.