Posted by Toph on March 24, 2005, at 9:10:59
In reply to Re: Sex again. Sigh. (possible trigger) » Toph, posted by Dinah on March 23, 2005, at 23:02:33
I am so impressed with your courage and openness about something so personal, Dinah. I think that many couples struggle with the changes that occur in a relationship, particularly how sex and intimacy intertwine or unravels. There's the act, and the act as an expression of love. It's nice when they occur simulateously, but often they are separate. In the beginning of a relationship both experiences, sex and love, are so intense that I think we assume that they are mutual and related in a way that is not always sustainable over time. The love that has developed between my wife and I has deepened since we first became a couple, though the passion has become considerably more episodic. I wish you the best.
Toph
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