Posted by Annierose on October 20, 2005, at 22:19:36
In reply to Maybe for another perspective?, posted by Racer on October 20, 2005, at 18:42:00
Thank you Racer. I do apprepriate your reply. I think this was what my T's intention was. What my T missed (and I don't know how she missed it) is that I'm a sponge for all my family's problems. They make fun of me, they tease me, and get great pleasure seeing me upset. I don't know how to defend myself, so I usually say nothing, or walk away, or wait for my witty husband to come to my defense. However, this time, when my dad gave me a back-handed compliment, I pushed back ever so slightly. Let him know that what he said wasn't nice (see my reply to Dinah -- last paragraph). This is what started the terrible 3 miserable sessions in a row.
I want that to end. I can't keep going only to leave worse.
But I don't know what to say to my T.
poster:Annierose
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