Posted by Annierose on October 21, 2005, at 20:54:01
In reply to Re: Do I have to go back? » Annierose, posted by fairywings on October 21, 2005, at 15:50:27
Hi FW -
You may have missed the dates on my posts, as I have already had my session where we talked about my feelings, and why I was angry. It did go well. Thank you for asking and giving me your thoughts.In my reply to Dinah, I explained more in-depth her thinking on the subject. And I do understand where she was coming from. She is right. I do approach people with fear ... afraid they will reject me, not like me, etc.
I see my T 3x per week. So I probably experience more intense feelings with her ... project a lot of stuff her way. I do think we have an incredible working relationship. These bumps along the road throw me for a loop when they happen, but like all relationships, misunderstandings arise, and it is up to the two of us to work it out. And the wonderful thing about therapy, I actually have the opportunity with someone who is also vested in the relationship to talk the problem through. I don't know this to be a fact, but I think the increase frequency of our sessions probably increases the intensity in which I experience therapy (as least it feels that way).
She does admit to her mistakes. She does own her part in this relationship. And you did not offend me in any which way. It's always good to read different points of view.
Thanks again. I always like reading what you have to say.
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