Posted by pinkeye on April 4, 2005, at 13:55:02
In reply to thank you all, posted by shrinking violet on April 3, 2005, at 13:35:12
I have this feeling that your therapist is not a great one. Maybe she will grow into a good one later, but you seem to be putting in all the efforts and from what you have written, she doesn't seem very supportive or insightful. And I think she really did a big mistake in trying to give your cat toys. I might be wrong, but that is the impression that I am getting.. You are doing all the work and she is not doing much on her part. If she was waiting for you to show up when you were not even clear if you left her - that kind of thing seems pretty odd to me.
You should try to find someone else to go to while you work on your termination with her. Start with someone else simultaneously. That would help you in doing it right and not get hurt. You are doing an amazing thing though trying to resolve the termination as smoothly as possible. But I would really strongly recomment to try to find another matured therapist alongside what you are trying.
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