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Re: He wrote me back » verne

Posted by TexasChic on April 29, 2006, at 21:03:40

In reply to Re: He wrote me back, posted by verne on April 29, 2006, at 20:13:49

> I'm not sure too many people would respond well to the "expecting too much" comment. If someone said that to me, I would give them a wide berth in the future - out of self preservation.
>
> You might examine this pattern of walking away in the middle of his explanation and then later wishing you hadn't started a dialogue when he returns your email.
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> I'm only hearing your side yet I think he makes some good points.
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> verne

Thanks for your response verne, its good to get a guy's point of view. When I said I was expecting too much, I meant I was getting mad at him for not doing things (like standing up for me) when I really had no right to be mad. I mean, he doesn't have to invite me anywhere if he doesn't want to. Did it come off sounding like something else?

As for the walking away, did you see what he said? I may not be describing it well but it was really insulting. The more he talked the worse it got. I was so-o-o mad. That's why I walked away.

As for me wishing I hadn't started the whole dialogue, I said that because I realized he didn't believe I was getting bullied by those girls, and thought I was just over reacting and being paraniod. I knew we weren't going to agree on that no matter how much we talked.

I know the reason I got so upset was a combination of the stress I've been under the last few weeks because of those girls, and the fact that I've had this crush on him forever. Plus, despite what he says, he actually did exactly what I was mad about - he excluded me because of the drama caused by someone else.

I was okay about everything, but now I'm all confused about it again. He probably thinks I'm a psycho.

-T

 

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