Posted by muffled on December 6, 2008, at 20:10:21
In reply to Memories (triggers), posted by Wittgensteinz on December 5, 2008, at 16:03:36
Wow, that intense and hard Witti, I am sorry.
I agree with others that sometime I have to 'sit' on a post a bit, and wait for others to reply, cuz I just not sure what to say.
There is nothing wrong with what you posted and you need'nt feel bad bout it.
Its just this whole memory stuff is SUCH a can of worms.
Memories come back from the perception of the child that experienced them, and so can be hard to understand. They can also get mixed up w/other stuff. V. young memories are non verbal, they rend to be body memes, or emotions.
So its really hard to know alot of times w/o some verification.
I think we need to trust in what we feel, and know that you were hurt. You may or may not ever know the real truth. Just obvo you were hurt.
I struggle with this stuff myself, which is why I didn't post.
Its just real hard stuff :-(
But maybe you need to work thru it to heal?
I dunno.
Just don't rush.
If there is mems to come, they will come when you are ready.
Don't force them.
I send you best wishes.
Muffled
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