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Re: Will my words diminish dreams ,spirits of another? » Gabbix2

Posted by one woman cine on December 10, 2005, at 23:20:51

In reply to Re: Will my words diminish dreams ,spirits of another? » one woman cine, posted by Gabbix2 on December 10, 2005, at 22:55:25

thanks so much for your words. I'm glad you found that this has resonated with someone else as well.

I think as woman (I'm assuming you are), society and other factors make sure we "take care" of people and don't rock the boat. Although I don't wholeheartedly agree
with Alice Miller, i do the like the "Drama of the gifted Child" because so much stuff is perpetrated on kids in the name of good and nice and goodness knows what else.

I also value strong dissent, mainly because it forces an internal dialogue within myself, I'm forced to look at the uncomfortable and sit with it. & hopefully make friends at point. It is hard to have a discussion with someone, and I have tried this with various people in the course of my life, who strike me as kind of aggressive or provoking & then they roll over and play dead and accuse me not playing fair. I have a tendency to call colleagues, friends, and family on their stuff - just as they all call me on mine. For example, in conversations with my parents - they used to be so critical of me - as a person. But the slightest statement or reference from me to them brought them to tears. Not fair fighting. I had a friend who would do and say the most provocative things and when you said something , like "hey your poking me in the eye & it hurts", she'd act like I just killed her twin, like "why are you doing this to me". I'm not qualifying this here, in this situation, with respect to PB - but i understand totally where you are coming from.

& yes, we all have a story to tell. Hopefully no one's voice will be silenced if they choose to tell it.



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