Posted by Tamar on July 3, 2005, at 19:57:24
In reply to Re: long post but it explains what I feel » Tamar, posted by happyflower on July 3, 2005, at 19:26:47
> Ya, I hate to get jeolous! Hate it, Hate it!My feelings exactly. It hardly ever happens to me, but when it does I hate the person I become.
> I have been married eleven years too, (good at sex too! lol) but you know some women like to pray on married men. I guess we have to trust that they will keep their thingie in the pants, and just look if they want.
Yes, keeping the thingie in the pants is usually a good plan! Your husband needs to be sure of what he wants. I suppose you need to be sure of what you want too. Sometimes these things can shake up a relationship in a good way, though it’s tough at the time. I find it’s easy to take my husband for granted. So knowing there are other women who like him can make me realise what a catch he really is. But maybe that’s just me.
> I agree, but it is so hard when you are the one that is threatened. I wish I could be more confident about my marriage, it is so hard especailly because I know this women, she is pretty, smart, and I can't find anything wrong with her other than she wants to sleep with my husband.
Pretty and smart is an annoying combination in a love rival. But since he turned her down she'll be pretty and smart and embarrassed (I hope!). If she has any sense she'll leave him alone. If she doesn't leave him alone she risks making an *ss of herself. Oh, and being pretty and smart is all very well, but it doesn't guarantee she's any good at [insert *your* speciality here].
> > Thank you so much for helping me even when you are going through your own stuff. I really appreciate your support. :)Hey, we’re all going through stuff here. I appreciate your support too!
Tamar
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