Posted by shadows721 on April 28, 2004, at 0:55:00
In reply to To call or Not to Call: Always a question!, posted by DaisyM on April 27, 2004, at 1:08:47
If there was a rule book, it was written by ourselves and it needs updating. The rules from childhood have changed. There is help. There is someone there that cares and is there for you. It's really okay now to reach out for help. It's there just for you and you deserve this kind of help.
Part of the learning process of therapy is getting ourselves out of the way of what is right for us. We don't learn much from the old comfort zone. It keeps us from growing to our full potential.
The old rule of I have to do this alone isn't true anymore. You just have to give yourself permission to reach out when you need it.
The old rule book can be rewritten and you have the power and the support to do that now.
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