Posted by rs on April 27, 2004, at 6:07:55
In reply to To call or Not to Call: Always a question!, posted by DaisyM on April 27, 2004, at 1:08:47
Hi Daisy. As you see have posted a few times. How I understand how you feel.
Daisy you are such a inspiration for me cannot find the words to describe it. Have read many of your posts. You are carrying so so much and deserve your therapist to help you. Look at all you do in one day. I also need my T in many many ways. Do I feel right about it? No not at all. And I know that is getting in the way of much. This T is so so real that its to good to be true. Do have DID and he is amazing. I know I need him much.
Daisy please please try to know that your therapist cares much for you and wants you to need him right now. He knows you deserve his help and caring. Please do not even look at it as your paying him. He sounds like he cares for you as a person. How many would check their messages on a weekend? I know how hard it is to accept that we need someone to help us. Sometimes think it hurts. But you care for many so please let him care for you and fill that need. You need his support and understanding right now. Hope this makes sense and in someways is supportive. I could share some things with you about my last session that was wonderful but not sure if right here.
Ok must leave for work. Please know I care for you and again think your a remarkable person. Also the work you do is very demanding. Do some kind of familiar work for many years now and find it at times very drainnig.
Daisy reach out to him. Hey listen if you need to talk with him today pick up that phone and just say "Thanks for being there for me and yes I do need you right now." Hugs if ok.
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