Posted by sunny10 on April 25, 2005, at 11:56:22
In reply to Re: Crap crap crap » alexandra_k, posted by PM80 on April 25, 2005, at 8:26:28
1) you are a wonderful person. It has been my experience that all people have weird thoughts about their parents. Different "weird", maybe, but all weird and all stemming from expecting them to meet our needs... You are no different nor are you bad for writing it down for us.
2) everyone who suffers from low self-esteem has used sex to "get love". It doesn't work, but that doesn't prevent us from trying to "please people to get them to like/love us". I've done it, you've done it. Frankly, almost everyone I know has done it at one time or another.. The mature ones have outgrown it. Not sure you and I have, but at least we are strarting to understand enough to question our motives...surely that is half the "maturing"!?!
3) if you stay on Efexxor XR, you will lose your sex drive anyway and these thoughts will start to subside so that you aren't "non-depressively, clear-headedly" thinking about them all the time!!!Hang in there, sweetie, you are doing AWESOME!!!!!!
XOXOXOXOXOXOX
sunny10
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