Posted by gardenergirl on March 10, 2004, at 0:45:06
In reply to Re: My family is driving me crazy- falls and Dinah, posted by All Done on March 9, 2004, at 9:05:42
Dinah,
I know this is really difficult. I have worked with older adults in nursing homes and rehab centers. The issues about losing independence and what will the family do are super hard to deal with. I admire you for what you are doing.That said, I admire you more for setting clear boundaries. That is so important for both you and your immediate family and for you parents. It's really hard for children of older parents to do this, as there is often guilt and other strong emotions competing with the reasons for decisions. I'm glad that your T and your husband support you on this. Applause for you, Dinah.
I also feel for you because like others, my husband has type I diabetes. He was a late onset, at 30 years old. I always said he was the healthiest person I know, and in many ways I still say that. But considering he maintains super tight control of his blood sugars and he still has had some loss of sensation in his foot in less than 6 years, it's very scary. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
Take care,
gg
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