Posted by Omega Woman on January 6, 2004, at 2:46:33
In reply to Re: Personal admissions, posted by zeugma on January 4, 2004, at 14:41:38
I had forgotten to say how I think you should change your living context. I'm sure you have considered this, but its not easy to move and a person forgets it might be the best thing to do.
I dont know where you live, but i've noticed that Globally there are Macho "hotspots". This can be for many, many reasons...usually cultural and economic but also Genetic within the population.
Its hard for someone growing up within their context to percieve they might be developing within a context of extremity, after all people dont generally discuss such things. Life has too many other pressures. These hotspots probably land many normal people with gender identity and relationship issues. Where I live the women become as insanely hard skinned as the men, and they make the men worse by manipulating them to fight for them. They copy their mothers. It seems like nobody stands a chance to be be balanced.
Anyway the point to take is that if you have issues with relationships from all this, dont think there is'nt a remedy. Move to somewhere opposite where the men in the population seem almost gay. Somewhere with Afro-carribean, indian or italians. you'll find the women just are as far gone as women can be, and will soon warm you up, even Gay men will find them hard to resist.
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