Posted by femlite on October 6, 2003, at 11:01:03
In reply to Re: Please help me understand my husband, posted by jinglebts on October 5, 2003, at 23:06:19
I dont know if it is part of my illness or friends are not true, (it is hard to maintain itimacy is this stress overloaded culture we stew in).
But my hubby seems to be able to bear the intensity of my personality when no one else can.
he is my truest earthly friend.
learning to stand up for myself with regard to how my friends treat me is a learning process.
learning to be real as the velvet bunny said seems a key. can i resist the temptation to posture? Thank you for asking and thank you for sharing yourself
> femlite,
>
> oh, i'm SO all over the place with him, love him, think he hates me sometimes, but i will tell you this -- and i really digress here, except perhaps i don't: i'm finding out who my friends really are, not because of my husband, but because i've been ill and have no patience for coddling them any more -- or maybe i'm just feeling my age ...
>
> you are blessed, and perhaps i am too ...
poster:femlite
thread:264954
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20031002/msgs/265939.html