Posted by bookgurl99 on October 27, 2002, at 20:23:40
In reply to Re: feelin' sexually frustrated/gf in therapy ╗ BeardedLady, posted by bookgurl99 on October 27, 2002, at 20:14:54
Thanks a lot for helping me to put it in perspective.
Please understand that I don't practice being an asshole; sometimes it just comes naturally. Part of my posting online is to have a place to discuss these feelings and gain understanding _without_ having to burden or hurt my gf. (Yes, asking her about opening up our relationship was a bad idea -- for my relationship with her. But I really experienced it as flat-out rejection unconnected to her abuse issues.)
Anyways, we're going to go visit a therapist to talk about things together. It's just a really hard time for both of us right now. We both have jobs we hate, and health struggles right now. So I think this tipped things over into the red.