Posted by ~~tabitha~~ on September 1, 2002, at 19:39:56
In reply to Re: Going hypo?, posted by Ted on September 1, 2002, at 15:03:58
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> Guilty as charged. Hey, with your description, what do you expect? Disinterest?Did not think of it as enticing. Which part did you like??? Hmm, maybe I should use it as my online personal ad. "Unstable, temporarily hypersexual bipolar female seeks male... blah blah blah, ... reply quickly before mood changes."
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> >Tis only about 400 miles from you. How fast do you drive?
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> Planes fly at 600 mph. Say, 2 or 3 hours door-to-door? Let me know the way. :-)
Well well, many smiles to you, naughty Ted, :-) but... we're only kidding, right? When I was an AOL newbie and didn't know better I actually posted a profile with my sex and location. I got IM'd by men who would chat for about 2 sentences then ask if they could come over. Call me innocent but I couldn't believe such things actually happen. I could believe men would want that sort of anonymous quickie, but not women.I always need some kind of nonsexual entanglement first, to build up energy. For example, remember when I was posting recently about the little flirtation/kiss with my young coworker at a party, and feeling mortified having to face him at work later? Well there were like a hundred cute guys at that party that I could have chosen instead, guys who didn't know me and I would have never seen again. But it was the emotional tie that grabbed me. I get strong feelings for coworkers over time-- irritation, jealousy, competitiveness, curiousity, craving their approval, the whole mix, and the chance to sexualize all that is just irresistible (hey that's why I quit drinking at office parties).
I don't actually have much of a sex drive, in terms of just looking at a guy and wanting to jump his bones. Well, almost never.
Then again, I'm getting pretty emotionally involved with Babble, so keep flirting, our day may come yet...
Tabby
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