Posted by am3ma on April 29, 2009, at 18:26:10
In reply to Re: neivity and intelligence, posted by garnet71 on April 28, 2009, at 21:06:49
Thanks 'g'. I can relate to many aspects of what you say. I am afraid and need to be liked but not to the point of playing the victim. I'm at my best in the care role when/if I'm invisible. This invisibility has its mystery too and I've recently wondered if by retreating i'm inadvertently making it all about myself. Don't know. I may be over analising.
Another thought: I've noticed that if I'm asked a question, e.g. an assessment of a situation, I will, with permission speak openly. I'm rarely challenged and wonder why as I'm always explaining that my opinions are open to challenge/learning.
I seem to lack diplomacy?
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