Posted by Amanda29 on August 16, 2008, at 21:32:32
In reply to Re: I am so confused and scared., posted by Looney Tunes on August 16, 2008, at 21:25:55
You are correct in that I am borderline. AND IT SUCKS. My T is working very hard with me and he is trying hard to deal with the transference but at the same time, I feel awkward because I feel like I shouldnt be experiencing transference. But you know what...all the therapists I have had have not been able to handle transference. I believe that he CAN HANDLE IT.
He has been trying to detach me from him by setting boundaries with him and I am trying to follow them. I believe that if I do, it will help the transference to deminish...hopefully.
My T is a Ph.D
I feel like that if something were happening that he thought he couldnt handle he would let me know.
I do trust him.
Transference scares the crap out of me..I never know how to handle it correctly and so I am hoping that by doing exactly what he says..in regards to boundaries and limit setting and ways to improve my life...It will help calm things down.
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