Posted by susan47 on August 23, 2008, at 19:14:04
In reply to Re: I am so confused and scared., posted by Amanda29 on August 16, 2008, at 11:52:38
Your T sounds a bit incompetent, if he's dealing with you and you have intense issues with fear of abandonment for example, and you have BPD, for example, he has just set himself up in a position of being an authority figure, doctor versus patient, rather than a co-healer with you, and Watch Out as if you fall for this, you're in danger of setting yourself up for some idol worship and even more dependency. The best way you can heal what's happened with you and him so far, is to completely back off until you have his trust and you have to earn it by being trustworthy, and perhaps your brain needs medication it isn't getting, and relaxation, and your body probably needs a lot of good exercise.
Think about it, don't get addicted to this bloke. It's a mistake you will regret. You don't want to live with more regret.
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