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Re: No Hugs for me

Posted by rskontos on March 21, 2008, at 14:57:01

In reply to Re: No Hugs for me rskontos, posted by Daisym on March 21, 2008, at 0:12:38

***************I probably will but right now this wound feels like it wants to hide. Is this pride? Or is it that this is one of those truths that hurt but you must accept it.

I don't think it is pride. I guess it is one of those truths of the therapy situation. Like I have an idea of what my T/p-doc thinks of me. I at this point would not dare ask because for right now I am not stable enough to deal with being seen in a different light than I think he thinks. If that makes sense. I don't think that is what you are doing just that the therapy relationship has boundaries and we all hit them at some point. Methinks you hit one of them. And that is where the sadness came from. Mainly because how good you were feeling prior and the hug is probably a remnant from the past that somehow would like to be blended but you need to find a different way as he can't allow a hug. Does that make any sense?
What I mean is the stronger you, could through a hug maybe resolve something deep inside but he can't allow the hug so you will have to find a different path to get the resolution.

I could entirely be wrong though. As I was in most of my other reply.

Exception to this is I do care how you feel and hope you have a great weekend!





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