Posted by Kath on March 18, 2008, at 13:21:10
In reply to What's wrong with me?, posted by Kahlee on March 18, 2008, at 7:06:46
>I haven't told anyone about this but I am not in denial. I just don't see how making this information public will help anything
((((((((((((((you)))))))))))That's WAY to big of a burden to keep inside, dear Kahlee. Have you ever had a counsellor or therapist? If you are near a big city, they often have crisis centres for women, specifically. I urge you to get a phone # & call or go to one. They will be VERY supportive of you.
I think it would be very helpful for you to be able to talk with someone about it.
FORGET about the confronting the abuser thing. Don't ever THINK about that! That would be huge & you do NOT need to do that. It's my belief that you don't need to do that to heal. That's been my own personal experience anyway.
I'm glad you're here & felt safe enough to tell us.
I hope you let us know how you are. We're here for you.
luv, Kath
PS please feel free to 'babblemail' me if you want.
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