Posted by gazo on March 19, 2007, at 20:00:07
In reply to Re: a newbie in love » gazo, posted by Dinah on March 19, 2007, at 19:44:00
i'm sorry if i am on your replies like white on rice. i have to admit i have wasted two whole days doing nothing useful except lookng for information about this.
i resisted therapy until i was too broken emotionally not to go. Therapy is a f***ed up thing if you ask me. Therapists and such seem to think it's all natural and perfectly normal yadda yadda yadda. Nowhere does anyone say what to do about the horrible pain! It's like none of them want to look at the terrible truth, that therapy invites you to form unnatural attachments to people for money. Then it's *your* issue when it doesn't feel right.
The whole process is geared to hooking into your most vulnerable places... but they never do any sort of interview or assessment to see if you can handle that. Not everyone can! There is often no plan to get you back out.
i tell people to RUN from therapy if they can.. but a self help book, post on the net... read tea leaves... whatever you can do. These sort of love feelings are the most painful thing ever.
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