Posted by muffled on February 26, 2007, at 21:54:27
In reply to Re: update » Dinah, posted by sunnydays on February 26, 2007, at 20:50:22
Sunnydays, I hope I don't say a wrong thing, i keep saying wrong things.
But the best stuff in T sure seems to be the darn hardest :(
Sorry its so hard.
Mebbe you could practice looking at this whole thing from a logical adult point of view. Try to get yourself out of hurt kid if you can? I can't do it, but mebbe you can? I dunno how to do it. Its SO hard to be in hurting kid mode.
So if your kid is like my kid she proly don't beleive the adult you, but the adult you MUST remember that she IS in fact a kid. And you need to cut her some slack and try and talk to her and comfort her a little if you can. And be honest with her.
You can tell her its gonna be OK. T still loves us, he just trying to talk to someone else, and we goto share the time cuz sometimes big SD needs to talk to him. And it'll help make things better if she can. Be honest, simple kind and direct.
Dunno what else to say.
Proly this is stupid too.
Sorry if so.
Just when I feel my stuff, like emots and stuff, then sometimes I feel for everybody else, and I want so bad to help ALL babblers, and somehow I getting messed up.
Take care.
I like you.
Muffled
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