Posted by gardenergirl on February 26, 2007, at 17:58:59
In reply to update, posted by sunnydays on February 26, 2007, at 14:31:36
Hi,
I can see why you didn't feel like saying it after such a hard session. It must be a bit confusing to go from feeling that love to feeling out of sorts with him. I'm sure it will flow back again to love. It sounds like you're doing hard work in therapy. That sure can take a lot out of you, and heck you're right. Who wants to pay to feel worse, eh? I've told my clients early on in the process that they might leave feeling worse than when they came in, and that was "ok" if that happened in that it's part of the process. OF course feeling worse isn't supposed to linger on for days, usually.Anyway, I'm going off on a tangent, like I have all day.
I'm sorry it was a rough session. And I was surprised to see this topic posted, since I was just thinking about it myself about my T. I don't think I've ever quite used those words, though I'm not sure. I know he would take it in the spirit they were given, because he's been pretty consistent with that over the last three (or four?) years. But it IS a big deal, and it's quite a gift from someone to say that.
Take care, sweetie. Hugs to you if that's safe.
namaste
gg
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