Posted by frida on February 25, 2007, at 21:36:45
In reply to have you ever told your T 'i love you'?, posted by sunnydays on February 25, 2007, at 21:20:52
hi..
I have...I think only twice and I did when I was really hurting or having a hard time. I wish I could tell her now.
Once I told her after a very deep, important session in which I told her something about the abuse I went through and I cried for the first time in years and she was really, really great to me. I called after the session...and said I wanted to thank her and I wanted to say that I love her very much.
The other time I also told her over the phone.
One of these times she said she loved me too and told me that we're going to work through this together...
I don't know if she'd tell me I love you too if I tell her, but she has mentioned that she loves me so I try to hang on to that.
Sometimes she mentions naturally that after all this time of course there's love between us and then continues to talk about other things.
But it's hard to bring it up and I fear rejection it's hard to be so vulnerable...but well, the times I told her this, it went well :-)
I hope it goes well, it feels so nice inside to be able to say this.
the best of luck!
frida
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