Posted by happyflower on September 26, 2006, at 12:28:19
In reply to Re: I Need some help, but be gentle..., posted by annierose on September 26, 2006, at 9:42:11
Daisy,
It is so hard to hear how you are stuggling, but I feel your T will be there for you. I am so glad you have him.
I too remember feeling something was off in one of my sessions, and it was frusterating me completely. I started to act out on it. When it was time to make another appointment, he got really huffy with me because I couldn't make up my mind on what day. I made a joke and he totally looked at me "coldly". It is a look I will never forget. Well as we were leaving, he normally opens the door, well I just grabed my coat and opened it myself, and said BYE!
He later got a very upset happyflower call. Well it turns out he had a doctors appointment right after my appointment where there might be doing some rather uncomforable things to him, so this is why he was acting so weird with me. He applolgies and said it had nothing to do with me. Well I did learn a very good lesson, that a lot of times when people act strange with us, it probably has nothing to do with us. Well this lesson has come in handy a lot in my life since.
So even though it is hard to see our T's as less than being perfect, it does help deal with that feeling in our real lives . But it hurt like heck. (((((Daisy)))))
p.s. I would like to clobber your ex. for you , if you don't mind. what a jerk!
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