Posted by crushedout on July 22, 2006, at 9:31:59
In reply to Re: as above, breaking my heart, posted by raisinb on July 21, 2006, at 21:10:42
> Wow, I hear you--I'm in the same boat. Can't get over the feelings, can't quit, can't tell the therapist (because what good would that do?). My therapist is a straight female, so she'd probably be even more freaked out by such a confession. I'm worse now than when I began therapy with her. How on earth do you deal with this stuff?
raisinb,
I don't think you should assume that because your T is straight she will be freaked out by your confession. This is really common in therapy. If they are any good, they expect this to happen. It doesn't even necessarily mean that you are gay yourself--only that she has touched some need inside you.
If I were you, I would try to share this with her and see where it takes you. It won't be easy.
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