Posted by orchid on April 19, 2006, at 13:11:37
How would you feel, if your husband was a T and have all this women who come and tell him their issues and problems and they crave about him all the time?
Also how would you feel, if your husband went to a female T, and tell her all his issues and troubles and innermost issues? And develops a huge transference towards her?
I guess a little of a judgement day for me - I don't think I would have taken either very well. Not well at all.
And I think I owe my T and my T's wife an apology for everything i felt towards him. He belongs to her, and I had no right to demand any friendship from him. And I think I owe my husband even a bigger apology for getting myself into that mess.
What say ya all? I know it is a hard issue for most of us, but I would like an honest answer if possible.
poster:orchid
thread:634800
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