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Re: Pls read: hubby goes to female T/T is your hubby » orchid

Posted by milly on April 19, 2006, at 13:50:47

In reply to Pls read: hubby goes to female T/T is your hubby, posted by orchid on April 19, 2006, at 13:11:37

> How would you feel, if your husband was a T and have all this women who come and tell him their issues and problems and they crave about him all the time?

**I guess it would be very threatening, I have a little experience of being in that position as hubby is a minister and so end up helping many in crisis who then think the sun shines out of his *ss. (which it doesn't by the way!) It can be very hard for him to be 'special' to so many and to hear them say how wonderful he is when all you want to do is scream 'he isn't so wonderful when he leaves his dirty underwear on the bathroom floor!
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> Also how would you feel, if your husband went to a female T, and tell her all his issues and troubles and innermost issues? And develops a huge transference towards her?

** Jealous as hell, which is exactly what my hubby has been through with me and although it hasn't diminished my feelings for my T it has taught me to be sensitive to hubby
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> I guess a little of a judgement day for me - I don't think I would have taken either very well. Not well at all.
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> And I think I owe my T and my T's wife an apology for everything i felt towards him. He belongs to her, and I had no right to demand any friendship from him. And I think I owe my husband even a bigger apology for getting myself into that mess.

** Yep me too
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> What say ya all? I know it is a hard issue for most of us, but I would like an honest answer if possible.


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