Posted by Declan on January 21, 2006, at 15:06:12
In reply to Re: T said to keep depression as long as I want it » Declan, posted by fairywings on January 21, 2006, at 9:02:40
If he could have just felt bad with you, as in 'here we are feeling bad together'.
There are choices involved, but I don't think it's those sort of choices. I have no idea what these choices are, but a good T can maybe bring it out and illuminate them in a surprising way.
The language of empowerment and choice can justify hardheartedness. I dunno though, if the opposite would do any good (Throw your hands in the air and give up).
Declan
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