Posted by PM80 on April 27, 2005, at 15:35:15
In reply to Re: Confusing my ex T with my dad? » PM80, posted by pinkeye on April 27, 2005, at 14:50:24
This is a legitmate fear. It will be a very real weight on you. Talk with your t about the implications of moving back to India (it is india, right?). What can you do to preserve your own emotional stability? You do have that right. Always. Even if it means that someone else must meet their needs elsewhere. My t and I have discussed boundaries many times. Somewhere there exists a workable solution (not perfect, but workable).
We sound a lot alike in some ways. I have felt many of the emotions that you have described in your posts. You will be okay in the end.