Posted by annierose on April 28, 2005, at 5:08:44
In reply to Re: Confusing my ex T with my dad? » annierose, posted by pinkeye on April 27, 2005, at 20:32:12
Thank you for sharing. Such a sad story. I wonder what you're mom was feeling during your your life. It sounds as if she didn't have a voice.
I don't have high opinions of my mother, but it's completely different. My T said that it wasn't that she was depressed, it's way worse. Not sure what she is alluding to. I'll need to ask today. By choice, my mom didn't participate in our family. Always sick, always tired, always had a headache. Very much the same today.
It's interested how we all end up growing up despite it all. I'm just so thankful I sought therapy earlier in my life (early 20's) to work out some of that pain. Now I can make different choices for my children. And I'm a much happier mother. But I'm now back in therapy to finish that work.
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