Posted by annierose on March 22, 2005, at 13:57:34
In reply to I read further, posted by Joslynn on March 22, 2005, at 10:58:12
LG04 -
I just wanted to say that I'm sorry your had to move away from your T. I can imagine how difficult it is for both of you to conduct most of your therapy via telephone. Very difficult circumstance. I don't understand what you think is her "countertransferance". Yes, she changed her rules (annoying, for sure) and set new boundries (always hard), but I don't think it is necessarily a countertransferance issue. I can see where her availability to you was a source of great comfort. And maybe your anger is really grief, that she won't be there as often for you. That can be hurtful. But I can see her perspective too.Apart from her work with clients, which she obviously holds very dear to her heart, she has a family that also demands her attention. Everyone wants a piece of her. I think she was just trying to carve out a better life solution for herself. She may not of handled it the way you would have, or said things in the manner you would have liked to hear, but can you "hear" what she is trying to say? I know you two will work this out because it is important to both of you.
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