Posted by messadivoce on February 18, 2005, at 16:48:25
In reply to Re: The next step » messadivoce, posted by LG04 on February 18, 2005, at 3:45:01
I broke down and called my T at home. She was happy to hear from me, I think. But I am feeling very conflicted over what to do, if I should have the mtg with the VP, etc. My T was apparently "chastised" for even calling her clients when she found out she no longer had a job. I think that was something that was my fault since I mentioned to the assistant to the VP that I had heard from her. But I can't take the blame for that, b/c I had no idea at that point what I wasn't supposed to say to who.
My T expressed concern that the VP would think someone "put me up" to meeting with her, namely, my T. I would have to make clear over and over that I was not put up to anything. But I don't know if they would even believe me because it is such a political mess over there. I don't want to make things even worse for my T. But at the same time, I feel like I have a moral obligation to speak out.
My T has an agreement with the university that she cannot dicuss the terms of her leaving with anyone. She has not violated that with me, but I'm afraid that they will percieve that that is what happened. And yes, I know that I will not get anything out of this meeting except the satisfaction of speaking out. They cannot fix anything. But I'm afraid that I won't be able to counter whatever insanity they come back with. I KNOW I'm right, I know all of you are right!!
I'm sorry if this is confusing. It's just such a mess right now. I don't know the right thing to do.
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