Posted by LG04 on February 17, 2005, at 1:27:44
In reply to Re: I sent you a babblemail (nm) » 10derHeart, posted by messadivoce on February 16, 2005, at 2:15:12
since she said you can call her, why don't you try that? can you tell her you still need to talk to her about some things, about how devestated you understandably feel, that you need more time to adjust to this, etc.? can you work out a way to speak with her once a week or something on the phone for a while and you can pay her something?
i had to terminate prematurely with my therapist (because i moved, a totally different situation than yours) but it was still so painful for me and now we talk on the phone and i pay her, and it has been very helpful for me in dealing with the loss of seeing her. so that's why i'm wondering if this method might be helpful for you also?
she seems to understand how painful this must feel for you and expressed her availability to you in other ways (phone or email). i think that is encouraging and maybe it would help you to make use of that.