Posted by antigua on July 10, 2004, at 14:49:33
In reply to Re: Do you and your t. say l love you ever?, posted by NVDeb on July 10, 2004, at 6:26:15
Yes, I tell my T I love her and she answers the same back. She accepts, but more often initates hugs. I am very comfortable w/her. I know she is my T but we have a lot of overlap in our lives (same kid's school for several years--I actually told her about it and she enrolled her child). At first it was awkward to run into her but now it's just second nature.
As to inviting her to an event. I invited my T to one of my son's performances and she came, but that may be because she was familiar w/the school. So don't be surprised if she refuses because of her boundaries.
It's best to speak your mind; you'll get further along in therapy if you do.
good luck,
antigua
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